As Valentines Day is round the corner there are so many people out there looking out for new relationships, trying to build and renew their existing ones, coping with the loss of one - and this post is for all of you. Here are my top 5 relationship tips for everyone out there. Although I have a lot more tips to share these are the things I learnt from my own life, my relationship and from the people around me that are very important to maintain a healthy relationship. Love can make or break your life but do you know there are so many other things in a relationship that matter more than love? Read on to know more about it!

Yes yes yes you would have heard everyone say this - understand him\her and life will be good. Let me tell you something straight - understanding doesn't just mean knowing the color they like or their favourite food. It's great for starters but what is really essential is knowing their views on having a relationship, their family and close ones, their passion and things that are more important to your partner. Knowing more about him\her and understanding their views regarding your relationship helps you stabilize your relationship and take it in the right direction.

As I said already love is not the only thing that is important in a relationship - something that is more important in the longer run is respect for each other. When you have respect for your partner the relationship turns more solid because they start felling important :) When you start discussing even smaller things with your partner it makes them feel more inclusive in your life and this makes your relationship stable and interesting.

Trust is necessary in everything and a good relationship is no exclusion. Building trust doesn't happen overnight but when you start giving your partner the space they expect and start understanding them trust falls in place. Trusting your partner strengthens your relationship and helps to maintain a healthy one. Also keep in mind that while you work on learning to trust your partner it is also important to build their trust on you for a healthy relationship.

I can't stress enough on this one - in the fast moving digital world everything is becoming so fast paced that having a decent relationship is also becoming a dead spot for many. While we really think about it a healthy relationship is all about sharing your thoughts, spending time with each other, doing little things that makes your partner feel good and appreciating something they do for you. A good relationship is really about the tiny little things you do for your partner and is not about spending a fortune. In a relationship giving someone the time they deserve is more important than anything else.

In every relationship there will be good times and bad times too but it is all about how we take it and how much importance we give to that relationship. When you find your perfect partner, as important it is to love them it is also important to share it with them whenever you could. This really makes your partner feel loved and soon they will start reciprocating it too!

Despite of spending quality time with your partner trying to understand them, giving them the space they deserve, respecting their privacy there could be times when your relationship spindles down and it is very important to handle this right to keep the relationship alive. It's not really necessary to give up a fight because you love them - always fight fare, try driving each other in the right direction, trust your partner's choices and amidst the bad times both of you will be able to understand and realize how good your relationship is!

A healthy relationship is not about compromise but about how you learn the priorities of each other, respect each other's space, trusting each other's decisions, sharing little joys of life together, giving mini treats for each achievement however little it is, consoling each other when you face a loss and despite of everything sharing the love💓

Keep loving & share the joy of love - Happy Valentines Day everyone!!💖